How often have you heard of women who struggle with sexual sin? Women’s struggles with sexual temptation don’t seem to be a common topic of discussion at Biola. In my three years at Biola, I have only heard it talked about in passing, after chapels and classes. These comments were usually made after talking about men’s struggles. But men are not the only ones struggling with sexual sin.
Women struggle with sexual sin too
Across the board, statistics show that incredible numbers of women struggle with sexual sin. A study by ChristiaNet poll reported by Marketwire.com reveals that 60 percent of Christian women have significant struggles with lust and 20 percent of Christian women are addicted to pornography. With numbers like these, it would be outrageous to think that Biola’s women are not among those who are either consuming porn or trying to avert from lust. With this information, I must ask: Why are there not more avenues at Biola for women to seek help and accountability for their sexual sin? Or, if there are opportunities, why haven’t most students heard about them?
Resources needed for women and men
It seems that men have all sorts of Bible studies, small groups and accountability partners to help them remain pure. Where is this help for women? In my time at Biola, I have never seen or heard of anyone addressing the issues of pornography, masturbation or even lust specifically for women. However I have met many women that have a difficult time restraining from these issues. When these women feel comfortable, they talk openly about it. In these conversations, women usually express feelings of shame or embarrassment. It seems that women do not generally feel the freedom to be open about their temptations in this area.
Asking the right questions
Why is it that women have such specific dress codes, while it is totally acceptable for men to play sports without shirts on? Why does there seem to be a stigma against women struggling with sexual sin? What is Biola going to do to address these issues? How can we as a community support and love women through this difficult journey?
Looking for solutions
First, I think we need to become aware of women’s battles on this campus. Next, I would love to see Biola’s leadership address these issues head-on with small group Bible studies or accountability groups. Women that are struggling need to be honest with one another so that we can begin fighting against sin. I hope that we can begin the journey together so Biola can be a place that gives both women and men victory over sexual sin.
